how far north are we?
your watch!
When one is on a night watch during an offshore passage, it is comforting to know that the other person is sleeping somewhere nearby. That way, they can be alerted when help is needed, or awoken when it’s time for their watch.
Before I continue with the present, I must back up to a situation that occurred during an offshore passage we’d taken on our first boat. In the fall of 1998, we had sailed out the Beaufort Inlet on the back of a cold front, and the seas were still trying to settle themselves. It was early into the passage, and we were already worn out. A few nights into the trip, my watch was coming to an end, and Wil was asleep on a settee in the main cabin. I called out to Wil that it was his watch. No answer. I set the autopilot, and went to the hatch opening. “Wil, your watch!” I called. No answer. I went below and again said, “Your watch.” No answer. I shook Wil and said his name. Still no answer. I shook him harder, and he still did not stir. Instantly, I became terrified that he was dead! I reached to check his pulse. He suddenly jerked awake. I had never been so relieved in my life! He was just plum tired.
Now to the present day storyline.
The starboard aft cabin is directly below the helm, and is an ideal location for the off-watch person to sleep. All that’s required to wake them up is a knock on the hatch or a stomp of the feet. However, this particular cabin now happens to be Colin’s. Since Colin was sleeping in the cockpit the first two nights during last week’s passage, we were able to use his cabin for whoever was off-watch. When Colin was ready to have his cabin back, we had to resort to snoozing on the salon seats in the main salon.
For the most part, both of us woke up on our own. We either sensed that there was a need on deck, or we were able to wake up in time for our next watch. There were, however, times when we needed to call out to the other..
Just like that one night back in 1998, my watch was coming to an end. At the same time, the wind was picking up, and I needed help reducing sail. I called out to Wil who was asleep in the main salon.. I called to him and then waited. There was no movement from the inside. I yelled louder. Still no movement. Since we were entering a cooler climate, I happened to have on a pair of shoes. The salon doors were open, so I tried to throw a shoe into the salon. I missed, but it hit the door with a loud crash. Still no movement from the inside. I threw my other shoe. It sailed straight through the doors and into the salon. Still no response.
What was I going to do? The autopilot didn’t work, and the wind was too strong to let go of the helm. I thought about how Wil seemed to come to the cockpit whenever he heard a change in the rhythm of the boat. I decided to loosen the genaker sheet. The line creaked, the sail flapped, and Wil appeared. It worked! Whew! He was, just as I had suspected, only in a deep sleep.
not now, the transition
After so many years of working for so long and so hard, contrary to what some people might think, it can actually be difficult to transition into a slower and more simple way of life.
Even though we have felt tremendous relief to have achieved our goal and are thrilled to be cruising, we have started to feel a certain sense of guilt. Is it really okay to relax for an entire day, or a weekend, and not do any work?
Many people work 40 hours per week, or more, and then mix the weekend up with house work and play time. Usually, the average person gets two weeks of paid vacation each year. We have worked almost every weekend for the past 3 years. Every holiday has been split between boat work and celebrating with family. We did not allow ourselves much time off.
Then came the last month and a half prior to sailing out the Beaufort Inlet. There were so many long work days. Early mornings and late nights. We were exhausted, but we had to keep moving. By the time we headed offshore last week, we were worn both mentally and physically. Not the way to start an offshore voyage, but fortunately, weather conditions were good to us.
When we dropped the anchor this past Wednesday, there was absolute silence. Then, we began hearing the call of the osprey on the nearby island. Nature was a beautiful sound. We went to bed early. We woke up late. We needed to recover. Even though we had just been at sea for 4 days, we didn’t leave the boat for almost 2 more days.
Once our energy level started to return, we began to venture out. Wil’s dad gave us a ride into Falmouth for some grocery shopping. The next day, we sorted through items that needed to be removed from the boat (yes, we are still trying to lighten our load!), and then we spent the rest of the afternoon and evening hanging out at Wil’s dad’s house. We relaxed, visited, did laundry, and took showers. It was a nice treat.
Yesterday, the dinghy never touched the water. Again, we slept in. Wil watched a movie on Netflix. I caught up on email and blogging. Eventually, we started to feel like we should be doing more. So, Wil did a little waxing on deck near the trampolines. I worked on emptying the shower in the starboard hull where we have been storing random items. Even though we have larger jobs on our to-do list, we only felt like tinkering here or there.
We have discussed feeling guilty for not doing more. Surely, it is okay to not work hard. Surely, it is okay to take naps and watch movies. Surely, it is okay to drink a glass of wine while listening to music and cooking dinner. These treats are long overdue, and we shouldn’t feel guilty.
Today, we reviewed the jobs to be done, and then we said “but not now”. We will enjoy the rest of our weekend, and we will return to “work” on Monday morning. We might be cruising, but work must be done in order to keep doing what we’re doing. Soon, we will find that balance between work and play.
w.o.w. is WOW! (part two)
w.o.w. is WOW! (part one)
Wow! Our word of the week (w.o.w.) is WOW!
I don’t even know where to begin. The experiences on this trip were WOW! I fully expected this trip to be “old hat”. We’ve sailed the east coast quite a few times, so we are familiar with the many sights and sounds in this part of the North Atlantic. At the same time, we knew that all of it would be new to the kids, and we would get to experience the trip through their eyes. Little did we know, we’d experience a few firsts ourselves.
The first couple of days were a very gentle introduction to offshore sailing for the kids. The winds were light (5-10 knots) and the seas were relatively flat (1-2 feet). In fact (although Colin would beg to differ), the whole trip couldn’t have been more perfect for the kids. We were also thankful for the gentle conditions while we became reaquainted with the boat again.
As we sailed out the inlet, our excitement couldn’t be contained. Wow! We were thrilled to be sailing again. Almost immediately, dolphins came to swim in our bow wake. The kids identified some of them as Atlantic Spotted Dolphins, but we also saw a few other types. I can’t count how many times we called out that dolphins were coming. If the kids were inside, they’d grab their life jackets and head for the bow. They never tired of the many wildlife sightings, and there were some good ones (as you’ll see in part two of this post). We also caught a false albacore tuna that first afternoon, but we tossed it back because they are a little too fishy for our taste buds.
Before we departed Beaufort, I had thought about how cool it would be if Wil’s mom and step-dad could fly over us and take a picture of us from above. We never had a chance to talk to them about it, so it was quite exciting when we were suddenly being buzzed from the air by a familiar plane. And now we have an awesome photograph! They circled us a few times before heading back to the mainland.
Later on that first day, Colin had been in his hot cabin just a tad too long. He suddenly appeared in the cockpit looking a little green. We had him go forward to the trampolines, so he could get plenty of fresh air. As we were sailing between Beaufort and Cape Lookout, we had the wind on our nose, so the motion was a bit unsettling for all of us. It’s been 3 years since we’d felt the boat move! Once we rounded Cape Lookout, and had a better angle to the wind, the ride was a lot more comfortable. Even so, both kids slept on the floor of the cockpit for the first night. Neither one wanted to chance staying inside for too long.
During our first night out, my nerves started to get the best of me. I knew we were getting ready to round Cape Hatteras, something we usually try to avoid. Cape Hatteras is known for having its own weather pattern, and many times the conditions can be rough or currents strong. To our surprise, this time it was dead calm and we had to motor the entire way past the Cape. A huge sigh of relief!
By the second night, all tummies were starting to feel better. However, Colin still preferred to sleep on the cockpit floor. We were amazed at how he was able to sleep. The wind was actually starting to strengthen that night, so we were having to do a few sail changes in the middle of the night. With all of our running around and sails flapping, the boy continued to sleep. At one point, I wondered if he was still breathing!
The following morning everything started to happen at once. The wind was blowing about 20 knots out of the southwest, but the swells were still out of the east. The wave height had gradually increased to 4-6 feet, and the seas were bumpy and confused. We finally had the wind we wanted, but the ride was a bit uncomfortable. Although not big waves, they were the biggest that the kids had seen, and the motion was really tough for them.
Colin wasn’t awake for very long, when he was suddenly green again. A small squall was approaching and Colin began vomiting. He had just finished one round with the trash can, when a mahi-mahi grabbed the hook. Between bouts of seasickness, Colin managed to reel in the big fish. Quite impressive!
Meanwhile, Justine who can’t stand for anyone to be sick, was in a state of panic and begging for her harness. She wanted to go forward to the trampolines. Never mind that we’d just caught a fish! Justine stayed on the foredeck for the entire day, and refused to come back. Even though I brought sunscreen to her, she was a tad sunburned by the end of the day. Fortunately, the seas gradually grew calmer and the wind subsided.
first passage complete
This photo was taken while we were under sail between Beaufort Inlet and Cape Lookout. We were buzzed by Wil’s mom and step-dad in their small plane. Very cool!
There is a lot to tell about our first offshore passage with the kids, so sit tight and more posts will come!
preparing for departure
We are in the final stages prior to hauling up the anchor and heading out the inlet. We are aiming for Cape Cod. Only time will tell where we end up. Since I don’t have any pre-posts written on this go around, the full story of the passage won’t appear until we have reached an internet connection again. Possibly in about 5 days from now, give or take. In the meantime, you can keep up with our GPS location via our SPOT.
Farewell Beaufort!
made the news!
Full Monty was shown on a television news clip about yachting in Beaufort. Check it out!
culprit found!
dancing boats & clean decks
Our decks have finally been rinsed with a good dousing of fresh water! Although, not without a little boat dancing to go with it.
First, here is a little background about the anchorage here in Taylor’s Creek at the Beaufort waterfront. The channel runs along the town’s waterfront, and there is a very narrow strip of area for anchoring just outside the channel. However, much of that narrow strip is taken by moorings, and the water can be shallow in places. Due to the lack of room for the many boats that come here, a lot of the bigger boats are anchored well into the channel, including ourselves. It seems that as long as enough room is left for passing boats, no one says anything about anchoring in the channel (as of yet).
When the SW prevailing wind is blowing, the boats face into the wind. When the wind dies, the tidal current causes the boats to face up or down Taylor’s Creek. The only time boats are bow to the town is when a weather front or thunderstorm rolls through bringing a N or NE wind. The dancing begins when the wind dies on a slack tide, and all boats go all directions.
We knew when we dropped the hook that we were putting ourselves in a position that counted on that prevailing SW wind. It was the week of Fourth of July, space was limited, and our options were slim. At the time, our stay was going to be short, and there was no bad weather in the forecast. We had pulled close to some moorings, one empty and one with a boat. Our hook was placed just at the channel’s edge, and then we sat back with our stern to the town, occasionally swinging up or down the creek.
Life got a bit exciting when a line of thunderstorms arrived in Beaufort yesterday evening. First, the wind died on the slack tide, and the boats began to dance with each other. One boat nearby wasn’t aware that they were swinging towards other boats and the channel marker, so we blasted our air horn and yelled at them to get their attention. Then, the wind and rain picked up, and all boats swung around facing the N wind.
We knew the wind switch was coming, and if we let ourselves swing, we’d be sitting on top of a couple of moorings, including one with a boat. We had our good engine ready, so when the wind switched, we kept the engine throttled to keep us at a safe distance. Occasionally, when the wind really howled, we’d start the overheating port engine to give us the extra boost and control.
It was a natural instinct to want to re-anchor. Then, we wouldn’t have to worry about staying at the helm during the storm. However, being in a poor anchor holding area, we didn’t want to give up our good anchor set. Also, when the wind would return to the SW, we’d have re-anchor yet again. So, we sat the storm out in the cockpit and at the helm. Adrenaline flowing every time the wind kicked up or a lightening bolt hit nearby. We’re not the tallest mast, but we all stick up there! Even with everything that was going on, we had the broom out, scrubbing the deck within the cockpit area. We were desperate for clean decks!
Finally, the storms passed, the wind died, and our boat settled back into a normal swing pattern with the tide. By 9:30 p.m. when the storms had finally departed, we were mentally drained and exhausted. We had no problem falling asleep last night!